For six years I cared for my dad, a WWII veteran, at home. These articles are what I learned along the way: the daily routines, the hard days, the things nobody tells you up front, and the tips I wish someone had handed me at the start. Pick a topic below to get started.

I Moved In to Help My Dad. I Had No Idea What He Actually Needed.

I Moved In to Help My Dad. I Had No Idea What He Actually Needed.

November 7, 2026

Moving in with an elderly parent sounds simple until you do it. I moved in with my dad thinking I knew what I was getting into. I didn’t. I’d never taken care of anybody in my life. Not a spouse, not a kid, not even a sick roommate. So when I decided to move in

I’m a Guy, and I Was My Dad’s Full-Time Caregiver for Six Years

I’m a Guy, and I Was My Dad’s Full-Time Caregiver for Six Years

November 5, 2026

When people picture a family caregiver, they usually picture a daughter or a wife. That’s not wrong. About three in five family caregivers are women. But that means roughly two in five are male caregivers, and a lot of us don’t even use the word. We just say we’re “helping Dad out.” I was one

My Experience With the VA Caregiver Program

My Experience With the VA Caregiver Program

November 4, 2026

For six years I was the full-time caregiver for my dad, a WWII veteran. For a big part of that time, we had the VA in our corner through its VA caregiver program. People ask me what it was like, and whether it’s worth the hassle of signing up. My honest answer: getting in takes

National Family Caregivers Month: What It Means to Someone Who Lived It

National Family Caregivers Month: What It Means to Someone Who Lived It

September 26, 2026

National Family Caregivers Month is observed every November in the United States. It’s a month set aside to recognize the millions of people who care for a parent, spouse, child, or friend, usually without pay and often without much thanks. I was one of them. For six years I was the full-time caregiver for my